Why? Because you are maladaptive to my state of mind, and it's too much effort and expectations from both sides to change. Let's just get the fuck away from each other's chrysalis and turn over a new leaf.
The funniest and most fallible thing about people is that individual perception is subjective. Words and actions will always have mixed reviews. It's not a mistake just because you don't benefit from it. It's not a mistake just because you're lonely. It's not my mistake that you're angry; that's your mistake.