I'm going to stop trying to read people's minds , and take their actions, words, and lack of for what they are. Does it hurt me? Does is serve me? When I try to mind read I realize that all the oncoming information goes through my filters. My own belief system and insecurities . I can't make out other's thoughts because those are a reflection of my own thoughts . Thoughts that are highly negative most times. I am a villain to myself . The sooner I can dismantle that lens, the sooner I can grow to be the person I meant to be. A happy person, all of what I hope to be.