"Be unassuming. Otherwise, you'll cry."

I can't just not be me.

Me — i.e, jpenseur


I feel incredibly disrespectful when I'm uncomfortable. I'm too hard on myself. I just so desperately want people around me to be happy. Despite all my effort for genuinity. I avoid eye contact when I joke. Quick entertainment, an excuse for pointless errands. 

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