"Be unassuming. Otherwise, you'll cry."

I'm confused whether this is resilience or I just accepted the norm that relationships aren't really cut out for me.

Me — i.e, jpenseur
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Recovering from heartbreak does something very interesting; it makes you far less upset by new heartbreak. It makes me question if perhaps I just didn't love as much as the first time. I don't think that's the case, though. I'm confused whether this is resilience or I just accepted the norm that relationships aren't really cut out for me. 

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